Sulochana Konur, who was betrothed two months after she turned 15, discusses their different paths to marriage with her daughter-in-law Melissa.

Asked for advice, Sulochana offered, “As you stay married longer, you will find out things that are different about each other, not what is common about each other…And you have to grow together rather than looking for something in common.”

Originally aired on January 27, 2006, on NPR’s Morning Edition.